 The Cost of Not Knowing Yourself
Imagine this: You wake up every day feeling like something is missing. You check off society’s boxes—career, relationships, responsibilities—but deep down, you feel disconnected, uncertain, and unfulfilled. You want more, but you don’t even know what "more" truly looks like for you. Or you find yourself trying to become something more than you are right now. You take steps to better your life and reach new highs….but when you do, you somehow find yourself back at the bottom or sometimes even lower. I know I’ve been there. Whenever I achieved something massive or something to be proud of, I found myself, on some deep part of me, feeling like I wasn’t deserving of it and tried my best to destroy that feeling - from others and from myself. By not deeply understanding yourself and not having clarity on who you really are, you risk:
But here’s the truth: The life you crave is already within you—waiting for you to claim it. The key? Radical self-discovery. And don’t worry, I’m going to give 5 questions to help you dive into these waters with a life vest to uncover your hidden treasure within. Why Doing This Work Changes EverythingThe most powerful thing a woman can do is to know herself. When you truly understand who you are, you gain the power to:
Let’s dive in.
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 If you’ve been on the internet for a while and in the self healing side of it then odds are you’ve heard of something called your “shadow shelf”. There can be some confusion and a little bit of fear over the name but I’m here to tell you that it isn’t scary and is actually something that you NEED to incorporate into your life if you want to make your life better and achieve your ideal. To understand the benefits of working with your shadow self, let’s quickly discuss how your life will look by ignoring it and not trying to understand your shadow. If you keep ignoring that side of yourself you will most likely experience one if not all the feelings below :
You might be aware of your patterns but find yourself unable to control or fix them. Or you feel so much shame about your life or your feelings or something that's happened to you or by you that you aren’t sure you can claw your way out. Thankfully there is a way to break free from the shackles of the issues above. It takes time, kindness towards yourself and beginning to work on your relationship with your shadow self. Your life can be one where you take back control of your actions, thoughts, relationships and life in a way that is best for you. You’ll be able to see your own self sabotaging ways and instead of running from them, you accept it to then let them free and to be healed for good. To feel confident in yourself and take back control of emotions in a healthy way (the objective is to keep feeling, to accept your feelings as they are and not allow them to control your life or suppress them). To replace the feelings of envy and greed with feelings of motivation and inspiration to help fuel you more on your journey. To finally make progress on the things that are important in your life, to finally say goodbye to indecision and procrastination! By accepting and working with your shadow, you begin to unlock the next powerful level of your life. Because once you no longer accept the unspoken “what ifs” of your untapped potential, you’ll finally be able to rise up and claim your divine power within! Join the goddess movement and finally FEEL what it’s like to be a goddess! Hello and welcome to the Goddess Energy Academy where I, Angel, help others awaken their power within to craft and create a life that is as beautiful and unique as the goddess that makes it. And one of the first steps to manifesting and keeping that life is the skill of shadow work. To honestly see and accept all parts of yourself. This is one of the most important relationships with yourself that you need to learn to work with and accept in order to unlock your full potential and live the life you love. Because we all deserve to live a life worth living! SHADOW SELF EXPLAINED First let’s quickly discuss what your shadow self is. This is what you pretend doesn’t exist in you.  Self sabotage…..the annoying little reflex inside of us that loves to see us fail and repeat the same toxic patterns we constantly find ourselves in. A reflex whose signs are so quiet, you don’t even think they’re your own doing. Some sneaky little sabotages might even make you believe they’re actually helping (when they aren’t). And as you’ll soon read about, a lot of tendencies were placed within you by someone who decided their trauma belonged in you …… or by an event that scared you so deeply, that it etched an echo of pain upon your heart that you still feel everyday. But thankfully, self sabotage doesn’t have to be a life sentence. Because once you understand the signs below and see why they might’ve come to be, you can then use the tools to fight it off and regain control over your life. You’ll finally be free of you getting in your own way and finally become the person you’ve always wanted and hoped for yourself. You are worthy of living a life free from old patterns that demand you to relive your worst moments and you are deserving of living a life full of growth and happiness. Take control and finally be ready to stop letting old wounds destroy your present and future! Or delay the growth and live in a world where the one person meant to love you unconditionally… hurts you? I truly hope that you pick the road that leads to you finally loving and supporting yourself. Because once you no longer accept the unspoken “what ifs” of your untapped potential, you’ll finally be able to rise up and claim your divine power within! Join the goddess movement and finally FEEL what it’s like to be a goddess! Hello and welcome to the Goddess Energy Academy where I, Angel, help others awaken their power within to craft and create a life that is as beautiful and unique as the goddess that makes it. And one of the first steps to manifesting and keeping that life is the skill of being able to see when self sabotaging is bubbling up and taking the steps to stop the behavior before it takes control. Signs Of Sabotaging |