Design Your Destiny Like A Goddess. A Step by Step plan to crafting the ideal you to manifest DREAM LIFE!

Before we dive in, imagine waking up every day excited, fulfilled, and living a life that truly reflects your desires. Sound like a dream right?
Well, stay tuned, because we're about to turn that dream into your reality with a step by step plan on how to actually figure out what your ideal life is and how a Goddess relates.


Hey there, dreamers and doers! Today, we're embarking on a journey to sculpt the life of your dreams.
I'm your guide, and trust me, by the end of this, you'll be armed with a roadmap to creating your ideal you like the goddess you are.


Firstly, What do I mean by being a goddess? Well you can watch this video here or read this blog post for a further explanation of it but it essentially every person has a goddess within them. Some people have their goddess fully awake and helping them achieve their ideal life. While some other people, like myself, had no idea she was in there and all I had to do was wake her ass up lol


Is there a literal goddess in you, idk but I use this as a way to help give me strength, guidance and courage to not only figure out what I want in life that is best for me, which will most likely be different than yours which is good because we are all beautiful and strong in our own ways, but not only does she help me figure it out but also makes me follow through to get on the path to create it by reminding me of my own inner strength.

The same strength, beauty, wisdom and power that you have within you too, even if you don’t realize it yet.
So now that you have the top layer of what I mean by referring to goddesses (which I will further explain coming up) let’s start on the journey of figuring out what your ideal life and you look like.


[STEP 1: Self-Reflection]
The cornerstone of creating your ideal self is self-reflection. Take a step back, grab a journal or a laptop or your phone, and ask yourself: What do I truly want in life? What lights me up, and what dims my sparkle? This introspective journey is the key to unlocking your dreams. Please do this without any judgement or limitations. Really shoot for the moon babe, why not?


What are traits that you love about yourself, parts you’d like to enhance or swap out for something else? Look at everything you want to improve in your life right now. Again no judgement because if you’re anything like me then I know you are out here just trying your best with what you got. It might not be perfect but you made it this far. And I’m here to help show you that you can have so much more bestie, like so much more. And you deserve it too.


Think about your financial goals, your relationship goals both romantic, family and friendship wise, where you want to live and what you want your job to be.


Don’t think small here, shoot for the moon my sweet soul because even if people made you feel like you aren’t worthy of love and happiness and success then they are pieces of shit and I’m here to tell you that you are worthy of your biggest possible dreams.

You are worthy!
So think about identifying your passions. What sets your soul on fire? Your ideal self is intertwined with what brings you joy. Whether it's finding more time for painting, coding, or gardening, these passions will be the colors on the canvas of your ideal life.


Write down all your biggest goals and dreams, Trips you want to take, etc.
If this seems like a lot or hard because you really don’t know what you want, it might be easier to think in negatives so write down everything you know you don’t want and then write the opposite of it to help guide you on what you actually want.


For example you know you hate dealing with tedious work, you hate having structure in the sense of a 9-5 but don’t want to start your own business because ugh the work of it and you hate the snow. From that example you then know that you want to look for a job that will allow you to work when you want, where you want, say on a beach, and work on something that is more big picture like managing a team remotely?
Try listing out the negatives and then on another sheet of paper or in another voice memo speak the opposites and see if that aligns with your ideal you more.


Please note that your idea of what your ideal you is going to change and not only is that ok, it means you’re making progress because as you start to act on this, which I will get to next, you will have the experience testing out that life and seeing if it really does or doesn’t match up. Then you adjust from there and align your goals to fit the new or focused path.


[Step 2 : Set Clear Goals]
Which leads me to the point that goals give life direction. Set clear, achievable goals that align with your passions and ideals. Break them down into manageable steps. This clarity will serve as your North Star, guiding you towards your ideal self.


Now take those big dreams that you just listed and get specific about it. What kind of car does your ideal self drive and why, how much money do you make a year, what country do you live in and why? Plus are you living in a house or an apartment or are you rving across whatever country, what you do for fun on the weekends or weeknights, how does your everyday feel and look like.


For example, I’ll share with you my current ideal me and what I am on the road to achieve because I am not there yet but I know with time I will be.
My dream goal is become a full time YouTuber (so original I know) but using my platform to be able to help other women or female id-ing people to see how effing powerful we are and to claim it because so many of us are told at some point in our lives that we are weak or not smart enough to be successful. At least in my case so as I keep learning and growing I want to share that with other women because it’s a lie and the real scam of it is us believing it to be right.


So I want to become a full time Youtuber who helps others see their inner strength and potential to achieve their goals as step number 1 and this step wont stop until I hit 100k subscribers which at that point I will want to start creating sustainable products that actually help the population and the environment instead of just pushing more garbage. Do I know what the products are yet? No but I will have time to think about it after i get some momentum on my channel and I find my rhythm and style on my videos and see what people actually want. So you don’t have to be super specific about future goals but real specific about the goals that are your step 1.


That is one little sliver of what I am positioning myself towards (which by watching this is proof to myself that I actually am doing this) and if you’d like to see how far I go as motivation for yourself to keep going on, then definitely go ahead and hit the sub button to surround yourself with people who understand that we are meant for more.


[STEP 3: Assess Your Circle]
Which leads me on to the next step of realizing that your environment matters. Surround yourself with those who uplift, inspire, and support your dreams. Evaluate your circle and make room for positivity. Together, we rise.


If you watched this video then you know that I am still working on this one but have started this youtube to be able to reach like minded people to connect with and grow with.
I am also trying out local classes that line up with my ideal life with hopes of meeting other goddesses to bond with in person!


It will feel so much easier and better when you don’t have to explain in depth why or what you’re doing to people because they understand and are on that path with you.


Now this doesn’t mean that you have to have the same goals as your friend group because different people need different things but if you are hanging out with other people who are trying to better their lives then it will inspire you to keep pushing yourself to your better life.


When you are surrounded by people who don’t understand and worse don’t give you the chance to explain then why are they in your life?


Which I know this is very difficult when it comes to your family. Both sides of my family are very toxic and was hard to be around. And I know a lot of you might not be in a place where you can get some distance from them so instead whenever they try to boohoo you, have your inner goddess remind you that just because they don’t understand doesn’t mean that what you want isn’t right for you.


They just don’t understand and aren’t trying to understand so don’t let their opinions register with you. Just sigh in your head and maintain your energy by not giving them the emotional response that they are trying to get out of you. Don’t give them that satisfaction. You have goals that need your energy more bestie.


I go more in depth on how to combat these kinds of people and situations and your own self limiting believes in this video and this blog post that I hope you check out after reading this.
Again, you are worthy of love, success and happiness and living your most extra life goddess.


[STEP 4: Embrace Growth Mindset]
And on that, try to embrace a growth mindset. Understand that challenges are stepping stones, not roadblocks. Cultivate resilience and see setbacks as opportunities for growth.

Your ideal self is forged through adversity.


This is still something I struggle with all the time but every time a limiting belief pops up, I take a step back and remind myself why I’m doing this which leads me to the next step that has really helped me stay on track and actually stick to my goals and make me extremely excited to do the stuff like eating right and walking every day.


Like gurl, every other time that I had to try and eat right or workout or loose weight for the army I hated it and had so much resistance to it but after doing this next step, I cannot wait to be able to do the right choices for my goals. It’s crazy cool and I want this feeling for you.


[STEP 5: Daily Visualization]
Now, here's the secret sauce – daily visualization. Envision your ideal self, feel the emotions, and see the details vividly. This practice rewires your brain, aligning your actions with your dreams.


You can do this by a daily guided meditation, a game changer for me with my ADD because trying to sit there and guide myself was hard and only ramped up my ADD but with a guided meditation, I was able to focus and get more done. 


Or another way to visualize is to have a vision board that is either physical and you hang in a space that you will see every day or it can be digital as your laptop background or have it as your phone background.


I personally have my vision board as my phone background and I do change the pictures and phrases on there as I move along my path or have a better way to showcase what I actually want. It can take a minute to dial in the photos and phrases that sing to you the most so understand that your first one doesn’t need to and shouldn’t be your last one.


Start off with step 1 inspo for each of your important goals that you want to achieve. Which don’t try and achieve all of your goals all at once. Pick 1 or 2 goals that you can start right now that you can work on that will give you the biggest impact.


Like I was saying earlier on how I want to create products. I could start working on that now but I know that it would take away from YouTube channel that is more important for me right now so it can wait until I hit a milestone then I can start to work on it.


Another way to do this is by setting an alarm on your phone everyday to either close your eyes and envision your ideal you and life or to say a motto that you can come up with that reminds you to stay on track and that the reason why your doing your to-dos is because of this reason, aka your ideal life.


[STEP 6: Take Inspired Action]
Because It's time to act. Take inspired, intentional steps towards your goals. Every small action adds up. Your ideal self is built one purposeful choice at a time.


Break down your goals and dreams into actionable steps and then start to put that in a calendar to have end dates. Think about what your ideal person does every day, every week night, every weekend. Then literally start tomorrow by acting in the same way. You will instantly become that person because you are NOW living as if you are her and doing it.


For example, one of my goals is to become a valuable YouTuber so my ideal person would research the topics that she would like to create, gather inspiration for the video, script the video, edit the video and then publish it BUT for me I envision her, aka me, of setting up a weekly flow to achieve these goals. So now when I go on YouTube to watch videos, I come at it in the way of, what videos can help me be a better editor, storyteller, or what can I learn from this book that applies to my channel.


So, I set up a weekly calendar for myself and I now follow it because I know that this is what is needed to achieve my bigger goal and that I have to do all this background stuff in order to become a successful YouTuber. I gladly sit down and script and plan and film (which I have 2 other YouTube channels before this that I always felt some resistance too and had no idea why but now I’m excited to do this because my passion is finally behind the actions that I need to take because I know why I need to do it and the sooner I do it, the sooner my dreams and ideal self will become real.


I even put on my little chalkboard sticker calendar when I was going to make all of these videos go live and back scheduled from there on what I needed to do in order to get this done. And I did and I’m so excited because I have that clear vision and thought about what I would be doing as a YouTuber with 100k subs NOW so I am acting as if I already have it to instill those habits in me so I will reach that success faster and easier.


Every time you stick to your plan and do what needs to be done, you will be filled with so much excitement about being able to achieve because you know that every step in the right direction is one more step closer to getting that goal you thought was only meant for other people.
CONCLUSION
And with that, you've just laid the foundation for your ideal self. Remember, this journey is a marathon, not a sprint.


Stay committed, stay passionate, and watch as your dreams materialize.


Your ideal self is not a distant fantasy; it's the masterpiece you're sculpting every day.
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Stick around, because the best is yet to come. The life you've always envisioned is within your grasp. Now, go out there and make it happen my fellow Goddess!