Even Goddesses Struggle, here’s how to preserver and achieve your dream life !

Hey, beautiful souls! Today, we're diving deep into the celestial world of goddesses, where even these divine beings grapple with the daily grind we all face.

But fear not, because we're about to reveal a transformative mindset hack that will propel you toward your dream life. Stick around and let's light that fire within!


So how does a goddess overcome the struggles of preserving to achieve their dream life?

Well the first step is understanding what I mean when I refer to a goddess. I do have this video and blog post that you can watch/read here, that dives in deeper of what I mean but essentially I use the idea of what a goddess stands for i.e. strength, grace, power, beauty in their own unique way as a place holder of who your ideal you is and how your ideal you is perceived.


I believe we all have an inner goddess and some have their goddess still sleeping and needs to be awaken, to give us their power and grace and wisdom because are you the type of person that can give wonderful advice to your friends and family but somehow aren’t living up to your standards? You’re able to solve their problems with ease but when it comes to yours, you go blank?


That’s partly because your goddess within already knows what you need to do (i.e. the same wisdom you give to others) and wants to help you create and manifest that for you now.
But like the mortals that we are, life has a way of trying to side track your desires, forcing you to conform or other shitty people are trying to dissuade you from living your best life BUT I will explain some ways you can counterattack these missiles that are meant to derail and instead you will learn how to reroute those missiles back to the ones who sent them.


Unveiling the Goddess Struggle: Even goddesses, with all their grace and power, can struggle to find motivation, to feel the creeping fear of failure, and the anxiety of the unknown. These are universal challenges. In this celestial struggle, goddesses remind us that vulnerability is not weakness, but a stepping stone to greatness.


First things first – realize that the struggle is real and that it's okay to admit that finding motivation, battling fear, and facing the unknown are challenges you face.


And reading this post is proof that you are not only willing to overcome that challenge but that you know you are worthy of your goals.


Because the simple sad truth is that most people are too fucking scared to even dream anymore.


When they were younger, they had dreams and ideals of what they think they’ll become and do and then as soon as they see how hard it will be or be laughed at by other shitty people who are secretly scared (which I will dive into more in a second) that they give up.


They are too afraid to prove the naysayers right or don’t even think that they deserve anything good or they are too stupid to achieve it or a million other reasons.


Be fearless in thinking big with what you want your life to be like and remind yourself that you are worthy of your biggest goals. If anyone ever said otherwise to you, know that my heart goes out to you and please feel this when I say that they were and are wrong. You are worth it and you are deserving of happiness, love and success.
Be fearless and set your goals high.


 The Fear Factor:  When you set your goals, don’t fall into the fear of failure, rejection, or the unknown because it can paralyze even the most divine souls.
Yet, within this fear lies the potential for transformation. Instead of succumbing to fear of actually acting on your goals, goddesses tap into their inner strength, recognizing that fear is a compass pointing towards growth. As mortals, we too can harness this divine insight, understanding that fear is not a roadblock but a guide on the path to our dreams.


Identify what you're afraid of by acting and starting down the path towards your goals, and turn it into an action plan. Break down those fears into smaller, manageable steps, and watch as the fear transforms into your compass pointing you straight to success.


For example, before starting my other YouTube channels, I was petrified of putting my face on camera and to talk about a controversial topic.
I knew I was going to be laughed at, threatened, misunderstood and a million other reasons. I also thought I wasn’t pretty enough or smart enough or charming enough to be on YouTube.

But one day I decided to stop thinking about all the “what could go wrong” and ask myself “what could go right?” and that’s when I discovered that I was so afraid of succeeding but I didn’t value myself and if this did go right, then I would have more friends and opportunities for growth and all of that was scary.

I was forcing myself into this unknown path and wasn’t sure how it was going to pan out. And I can say for 100% certenty that I would not be who I am today if I hadn’t started my other channels back in 2019. i am so grateful to myself for pushing past the fears that caused me anxiety attacks daily but the growth and the courage I gained from over coming that is an incredible feeling that I really want you to feel.


There is something so powerful when you do the things you say you are going to do and actually showing up for you. I don’t know about you or your up bringing but for me I never really had anyone who I could rely on for even the most basic human needs. So I learned young that I had to rely on myself to get stuff done and to survive. (Any other CPTSD babes out there lmao)


But now that I have gotten myself to an ok spot, I found myself wanting more which is natural and to do something different with my life but as I set my goals and set my timeline I found myself pushing off my tasks or saying tomorrow I’ll start my action plan and it wasn’t until I watched this video of someone who said something along the lines of
“How to actually achieve your dream and prove to yourself that you can do it, is by actually doing it. No one is going to save you and no one is going to hand you your dreams. Prove to yourself that you can do this by simply doing what you say you’re going to do and slowly as you do this more, your confidence increases and you start to actually make progress.”


Show up for yourself because no one else is going to. And once you start, don’t stop! Because you can’t win if don't start and you can’t lose if you don’t quit.


Preserving the Dream: Goddesses embody perseverance in its purest form. Despite their divine stature, they understand that achieving their dreams requires unwavering determination.


As we navigate our own journeys, we must adopt this goddess mindset, embracing challenges as opportunities to evolve and persisting in the face of adversity. After all, the path to a dream life is rarely a straight line, but a journey adorned with twists, turns, and challenges that test our resolve.


And one of the biggest set backs that I faced and you might too is when those around you make fun of you for pursuing your dreams. They call you dumb, weak, no follow through, weird, the good ol “oh your starting something new, giving you a week before you quit” or whatever other insults that they say in hopes that you abandon your dreams and you know why?


Because hurt people, hurt people. If you think about it, people who are happy or are working towards some goal for themselves don’t feel the need to bring someone else down.


It’s usually the person who let their dreams die and are upset by it because watching you pursue your dreams, reminds them of their inability to follow through with theirs.
Which leads me to the next point.


Ignoring the Naysayers: In the mortal realm, naysayers are everywhere, casting doubt and discouragement like dark shadows. But a true goddess knows that those who dissuade us from our dreams are often bound by their own fears and insecurities. By acknowledging this truth, we gain the power to silence the external noise and focus on our own journey. Embrace the goddess wisdom: the opinions of those who fear pursuing their own dreams are not worth your attention.
There is this crazy human condition known as the “Crab bucket analogy” (which I used in this video here) which states

💡 The metaphor is derived from anecdotal claims about the behavior of crabs when they are trapped in a bucket: while any one crab can easily start to climb out, it will nonetheless be pulled back in by the others, ensuring the group's collective demise. Best described by the phrase "if I can't have it, neither can you”


We’ve all met someone who is just determined to bring those around them down into their pit of despair because misery loves company.
GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM THEM AND DO YOU BABBEEEYYYYY OKKKKK

You are too wise for that bullshit because wisdom teaches us to filter out the noise. In the mortal realm, naysayers are a dime a dozen, but their opinions are just distractions from your true path. Tune in to your own frequency, and let go of the negativity. Your journey is uniquely yours, and it's time to own it.
Goddesses are known for their unwavering determination, and guess what? You've got that same power within you! No matter what obstacles come your way, keep pushing forward.

Remember, the road to success is a journey, not a destination. Every challenge is a chance to grow stronger.


Embracing the Goddess Within: The journey to unleashing your inner goddess is a transformative experience. It requires self-reflection, acceptance of vulnerability, and the courage to face your fears head-on. Embrace the goddess mindset, and you'll discover the strength to overcome obstacles, the motivation to pursue your dreams relentlessly, and the wisdom to ignore the doubters.


If you would like some help on how to create your ideal you or your inner goddess as i like to refer to as, then check out this video to help get you started.


Because, my fellow beautiful goddess, You at the end of the day are thee only person who knows what you’ve been through and why you are doing what you’re doing so as long as you have your mindset right (watch these videos to strengthen yours 1& 2) then you can have peace knowing that no one else’s opinion can stand up to yours. You are unbothered because you have the biggest goals and the clearest of visions.
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Make sure to channel your inner goddess. Because nothing is more powerful than embodying success before you achieve it. Imagine yourself already living your dream life. Feel the emotions, visualize the success, and let that energy propel you forward. This isn't just woo-woo; it's a powerful manifestation technique embraced by many successful individuals in almost every aspect of life. Like I’m literally reading the new Arnold Schwarzenegger book and he literally is describing manifestation but just dressed up in body builder metaphors, it’s great.


Conclusion: As we delve into the empowering world of goddesses, we unveil a mindset hack that transcends myth and legend.
The struggles they face resonate deeply with our own, and the wisdom they impart is a guiding light towards conquering fear and pursuing our dreams. Embrace your inner goddess, and let her inspire you to navigate the journey ahead with grace, strength, and an unwavering commitment to your dream life.


Embrace vulnerability, turn fear into fuel, persist through challenges, filter out the noise, and embody the goddess within.
Your journey to a dream life starts now. Stick around, soak in the wisdom, and let the unstoppable force within you lead the way.
You've got this bestieeee!