Goddess WAKE UP & STOP living for others! You NEED TO LIVE FOR YOU! How to stop people pleasing and getting what you deserve in life

Goddess WAKE UP! It's time to rise up and reclaim your power.
No more living for others, it's time to live for yourself! You deserve to pursue your dreams, embrace your true essence, and live a life of fulfillment and happiness.
It's time to break free from the cycle of people-pleasing and start living life on your own terms.


1. Embrace Your Authentic SelfWe don’t know what we truly want because we never really sat down with ourselves and think about it.
The first step towards breaking free from the chains of societal expectations is to embrace your authentic self. Don't let other people's opinions define who you are or what you should be. Celebrate your uniqueness and let your true essence shine. Remember, you are a Goddess with incredible potential and it's time to unleash your power!
What do I mean by inner goddess? Watch this video after reading this or check out this blog post to understand deeply that you are a goddess and just don’t know it yet. 
By being honest with yourself about your current life, WHICH PLEASE DO SO WITH NO JUDGEMENT, because the world is nuts and I know you’re just trying to do the best you can with what you got so take deep breath, relax and start to write down what you want to change about your life and cut yourself a break and know that you are trying.


2. Set Boundaries and Prioritize YourselfA lot of us live our lives without realizing it on what we think others will approve of (obvy not all of us but to some level we know we will judged and would like to look like we have our shit together. some people don’t have this problem and odds are they aren’t reading about this topic so we soul sisters out here).
But as you adopt the clear vision of your ideal you, which is your inner goddess, the only persons opinion that you should care about, is your own. You know why you are doing what you’re doing and if people don’t want to try and understand then their opinion shouldn’t register because they just won’t get it and that’s ok.
To stop people-pleasing, it's crucial to set healthy boundaries.
Learn to say no when something doesn't align with your values or goals. Prioritize your own needs and desires without feeling guilty.

Remember, you are not responsible for the happiness of others.

By setting boundaries, you are honoring yourself and creating space for your own growth and happiness.


3. Cultivate Self-Love and Nurture Your Inner GoddessJust like what I said earlier about people being too afraid to look at their life and make a goal about what they want to be, it’s even harder to actively start to be that person and to overcome the fear of the unknown. 
I know from my own experience that it is scary and how that fear manifested in my life was in the form of procrastination. I would plan and plan and plan but never act on any of it because at some level inside myself I didn’t think I was worthy or strong enough to achieve my goals and become the person I am today and who I am actively still trying to become. 


I let the words of others dictate who I was but who I didn’t want to be. I finally had had enough and set my path to figuring out how to finally work on me and stop being everything to everyone.


Self-love is the foundation of living a fulfilling life. Treat yourself with kindness, respect, and compassion. 


Treat you like you would treat the person that you care for the most but then ramp it up because at least you know the effort that you are doing to make that person aka you, be their top priority. I have done so much for some many people and have them not care, throw it in my face or just be like cool thanks.

So take time for self-care activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul in the direction that you want to go in. Don’t “self-love” yourself into debt by “treating yourself” constantly if your goal is to save money for an expensive trip you’ve wanted to go on for years, think about another way to treat yourself that aligns with your goals.
Obvy that’s just an example to show that sometimes, which I am fully guilty of, of treating yourself to something that actually makes you take a step back. For me my goal was to be healthier because I have autoimmune issues but I would treat myself to food that would put my body in an inflamed state.
I was actively self sabotaging myself without realizing it. Now that doesn’t mean I don’t have those foods every now and then but by having a goal I am less likely to want them because I know it’s not what my ideal me would do. Now I treat myself to a cute new piece of clothing that is in line with my ideal me wardrobe because that is something that will make me just as happy.


Embrace your inner Goddess and believe in your worthiness. Know that you deserve the best that life has to offer and make self-love a priority in your daily routine.


4. Pursue Your Passions FearlesslyDon't let fear or the judgment of others hold you back from pursuing your passions. Your dreams and desires are valid, and it's time to chase them with unwavering determination.
Our family and friends go into the “crabs in a bucket” situation and only want to see you do better but not better than them.

For example to explain the crabs in a bucket metaphor, when one crab tries to escape from the bucket to freedom, another crab or crabs will grab the one trying to live their life for them and will pull that hoe back down because if the stuck ones are dying then damnit so are you. Your friends that you have now, most likely had dreams that they gave up on and by you actually chasing yours, reminds them on some level that they gave up on theirs and then will want to pull you back down and to give up on yours so you can be together in misery.


Follow your heart and do what brings you joy and fulfillment. Surround yourself with supportive and like-minded individuals who uplift and encourage you to reach for the stars. Together, you can create a powerful support system that fuels your journey towards success.


This step is currently where I’m at and is one of the main drivers for me to start this blog.
So I can have fellow goddess friends to share my wins with who will be happy for me, to also share my struggles with and gain guidance from and to allow me to cheer and celebrate other people who are actually trying to better their lives and achieve their goals.
I want to be the cheerleader and also the star. And I want that for you too so if that sounds like your vibe then join the newsletter or  our private FaceBook Group  to chat with others!!
I am also trying to go out and meet people in activities that align with my goals and ideal me to surround myself with people who will better me. I know that I will have to try different Meetups and classes until I find my gaggle of goddesses but I know they are out there and wanting to find me too so I won’t be giving up and I hope you wont either.


5. Believe in Yourself and Trust Your Inner VoiceWe are too afraid to admit to ourselves that we have a huge goal because we on some level don’t know if we deserve it. But I’m here to tell you that you are deserving because honestly, there are people living your dream life who aren’t as smart as you or as nice as you or are as caring as you so if they have the courage to live that dream, why can’t you?


Believe in your abilities and trust your intuition. You have the power to create the life you envision for yourself. Don't let the fear of failure or the opinions of others dim your inner light. Stay focused on your goals, embrace challenges as opportunities for growth, and have faith in your journey.
Your inner Goddess is guiding you every step of the way, reminding you of your immense strength and potential.


Remember, you are the author of your own life story.

Wake up your inner Goddess, break free from people-pleasing, and embrace the life you truly deserve. It's time to live for yourself, follow your passions, and let your light shine brightly, which will inspire others to do the same.

Embrace your power, dear Goddess, and let your journey of self-discovery and empowerment begin!