I was driving 45 minutes one way in end to end traffic to a soulless job, living with terrible health, having sweat-inducing finances and a family life that was driving me to a cliff edge at any moment. “This can’t be what life is meant to feel like…right?” I whispered into the noisy nightly traffic commute home where I had to set up to host people I didn’t even like. “There has to be another way” I plead into the honking echoes of angry drivers. So I vowed that I would start the journey of figuring out how to take control of my life and live differently. I was FED UP with not being the person I thought I would be……well I had no idea who that was but I just knew that who I am now, was not it. I wanted to be someone who was confident, felt amazing in their skin, knew what she wanted to pursue in life and found purpose. I wanted to have so much self respect that whenever anyone talked to me, they could feel it and respected me with the same energy. I wanted to be proud, but currently, I wasn’t even happy. That overwhelming feeling led me to go on this wild journey of healing and awakening. It cost a lot of tears and a lot of thinking but ultimately I am so proud to say that it is WORTH IT. Worth the tears and worth the hours spent reading and learning. I can say that I am choosing who to show up as everyday and even on my bad days, I still have respect for myself because I know I’ll bounce back and that it’s normal. I know that the following day will be even better because I know what I’m working towards. And this feeling, this feeling of confidence and knowing what you’re doing in life is so empowering that I want to help YOU, my sweet fellow goddess, tap into this because the more people that pursue what makes them happy and figuring that out, makes the world happier. And I don’t know about you but after everything that has been happening lately, happiness is needed more now than ever. This guide is going to help you take one step closer to realizing who you are and who you want to be. Because once you no longer accept the unspoken “what ifs” of your untapped potential, you’ll finally be able to rise up and claim your divine power within! Join the goddess movement and finally FEEL what it’s like to be a goddess! Hello and welcome to the Goddess Energy Academy where I, Angel, help others awaken their power within to craft and create a life that is as beautiful and unique as the goddess that makes it. And one of the first steps to manifesting and keeping that life is the skill of crafting who you choose to show up as everyday. By actively choosing who you want to become, you start to create focus and work on things everyday with new meaning. There are a lot of dopamine studies that show that when you have a goal and are working towards it, you start to naturally produce healthy dopamine which aids you in finding joy in all the little things you find yourself doing everyday. For example, doing the dishes used to annoy you but now that you have an ideal person who has a clean and tidy home, you view the action of doing your dishes as something your ideal you does, so you find a way to make it enjoyable. By either listening to music, watching a show, lighting a candle, talking to someone on the phone, etc. As you do the chore, you gain self confidence and respect for yourself because you’re doing and living as your ideal you and once the task is done, you can see how you are one step closer to being that person and dopamine gets released. Due to that dopamine being released, you now start feeling ok towards doing the dishes, it’s no longer a huge burden but rather just something that you do to show yourself you are that ideal and more dopamine gets released. It’s a wonderful way to biohack yourself into helping your mind and body get on board with the new you and make long lasting change. Having an ideal you that you create has so many more massive advantages waiting for you to tap into and by finally saying you are worthy of everything you can dream of, you’ll be rewarded in so many ways. And don’t worry, next week’s guide is all about what to do with your new you concept that you’re going to create in this guide and the steps to start living like her. So let’s get into the ways to choose who you want to be. WHAT YOU’LL NEED What you will need is someway to write out answers to the questions I have below. It can be online like google docs, notion, your phone, etc. You can record yourself talking if you don’t want to type, you can grab a good ol fashion journal or whatever calls to you. It’s important to be able to come back to these questions because you can, and most likely will, change your mind or tweak something or just get a refresher of what you said/thought. If you saw last week's guide then please use some of those answers here to help make this easier. You will need a judgment free, open, caring mind to go into this. You are finally telling yourself that you are here to see your soul and give yourself the shot at life that you deserve and one that makes your soul sing! MAKE SURE TO give this time, you don’t need to answer all of these in one day. You might find yourself writing something down one day, have a few days to think it over while also living as this person you are creating and then realize you need to change it because it’s actually not what you think/feel. Remember that what you write now isn’t set in stone. Just an easy starting point to get you on the journey of becoming the powerful, radiant goddess that you are. And since you are choosing who you want to be, have fun with it! Test ideas out and don’t be afraid to try and change things around. I have gone and deleted, adjusted and added so many times that I’ve lost count but with every change made, it was me taking one more step into who I truly want to be. I consciously choose who I am and who I show up as her every day. And as you test and try things out, you’ll really get to know yourself so deeply. You’ll be able to break self sabotage and people pleasing because you begin to really love and cherish yourself. And you don’t want to hurt the person you love and cherish right? So give yourself some grace and finally have some fun! Ok, now that we are ready to go, let’s get into the Questions Please feel free to answer in whatever way you want, it doesn’t have to be one after another. Get the worksheet now! Use Coupon code : guide2off to get 50% off! Get the worksheet now! Use Coupon code : guide2off to get 50% off! PART ONE What are 3 things you want to be exceptional at? *Since it takes 3-5 years in order to work at something to become exceptional, this gives you a nice long timeline for you to really give your best effort and set you on a path of skill building that will benefit you for many years after. And if you give it your best and don’t like it, you try another goal and work towards, along the way building and learning amazing skills that will reward you in so many ways in life.
PART TWO What are the character traits that your new you possess?
What does mundane look like for your new you?
What does their social life look like?
What makes them, them?
CONCLUSION Remember to take it slow and to have fun with this! You are finally deciding on who you want to show up as and the possibilities are endless! Next week’s guide is going to be all about the next steps on what to do with this now that you’ve got some ideas to act on and how to stay motivated. The journey of becoming your true self takes time, love and faith. Don’t be upset when something you thought you wanted isn't what you truly want. Instead be proud knowing that you actually took the step to figure it out and you now learned something about yourself that you didn’t before! Plus who knows what experiences, friendships and skills you’ll learn along the way. A quote I love lately is: You can’t win if you never start and You can’t lose if you never quit! Remember to ask yourself, “what could I become and accomplish if I embraced the energy of the goddess within?” because I for one would love to see who you become. Remember that you are beyond worthy of anything you want in life. Let’s stick together and cheer each other on my fellow goddess! I believe in you sweet soul and until next time, I wish you peace, strength and hope. ~Love Angel
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